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My Favorite Orgasm Positions
by Janet Janowski- OrgasmicEarth.com Review Team Specialist
After canvassing the globe for over 20 years, in search of the world's best orgasm positions, you could say that I'm a rather "seasoned traveler"...
I am by no means a nymphomaniac. I'm a normal 40-something-year-old woman with a normal libido and a healthy outlook towards sex. (Don't ask me what my exact age is- because I'm not going to tell you!) We all have sexual desires and needs, and I've never been ashamed of pursuing mine.
I'm proud to say that my husband of 12 years and I are very happily married and sexually fulfilled. We usually make incredibly passionate love to each other 4 or more times per week. I can honestly say that sex with Howard is still just as intimate and intense as it was when we made love for the very first time.
We are both very open-minded about sex, and we discuss ways to keep our sex lives exciting on an almost daily basis. We find that a great way to do this is to frequently try new sexual positions. Variety is the spice of life. I couldn't imagine doing the same things, all the time, year after year. BLAH!
Although there are hundreds of different positions, and I can't say that we've tried them all, here are 10 simple orgasmic positions to get you started:
Upright Missionary
This is a variation of the traditional missionary position in which the man moves to an upright position while the woman remains on her back. I enjoy this position because my husband can caress my breasts or my clitoris while he makes love to me.
I tend to achieve orgasm much more easily if my pelvis and thighs are elevated at least 20 degrees above my torso.
We like to use ergonomically designed sex furniture so that we can get each other off in style and comfort.
This is furniture that is specially made for the purpose of helping couples get the most out of all of the orgasm positions. My favorite sex furnishing comfortably aligns my body at the perfect angle so that my G spot can be stimulated effectively.
Legs Up
I find that this orgasm position feels very similar to the upright missionary position. It's a great way to change things up and keep things spicy!
"Oh yeah baby... please don't stop!"
Doggy Style
OK, usually, I like for my husband to be romantic and gentle with me. But, I admit, sometimes I just want to be submissive. Howard loves to dominate me; and when he's turned on- I'm turned on!
Doggy style is also nice because my husband can reach underneath me and play with my breasts and clitoris. He can also clutch and massage my butt; or sometimes, if he's really excited, he'll give me a playful spanking.
Spoon Position
Although I can't see my husband's face, I still find this sexual position to be very intimate. Often times, Howard and I will be lying in bed- just snuggling. He'll start kissing my neck. Next, he'll seductively pull out his penis and use it to tease my pussy before gently working it into my vagina. It feels so good- I can't say no.
That husband of mine is one sly fox!
(Although it tends to be low intensity, and I wouldn't really consider this to be an orgasmic position, this is still a fun way to get the party started.)
Riding Position
This is one of my favorite orgasm positions because I can control the angle of penetration, the movements, and the tempo. I almost always climax when using this position. Instead of riding up and down on my husband's shaft, I prefer to slide down to the base of his penis and stay there. Then, I gyrate my hips back and forth and in tight, circular motions. This keeps my clitoris stimulated by keeping it rubbed up against Howard's pelvic bone.
Reverse Cow Girl
In this orgasm position, the man lies on his back with his legs held together while the woman sits on top of him. She straddles his legs, facing towards his feet.
Extremely hot!
Loving Embrace
I really enjoy this position because it makes me feel a deep emotional connection with my husband. As I sit in Howard's lap, we lovingly wrap our arms around one another. We often reinforce our spiritual union by verbally expressing our deepest affections towards each other while making love. This is a truly blissful experience.
Reverse Kneeling
I really love the Reverse Kneeling orgasm position because it allows for deep penetration. If you don't mind getting a little kinky- have your lover kiss your neck and pull your hair!
Standing
In this position, have your man stand upright while you straddle him. Wrap your arms around his neck, and your legs around his waist. This position requires that both partners be somewhat nimble and for the man to be relatively strong.
My husband uses the bedroom wall to stabilize my weight. (Or the kitchen wall if we are too horny to make it upstairs!) I sometimes cum from this orgasm position right away- more from the lustful thrill of having my body taken in the heat of passion than anything else.
The educational DVD for couples shown to the left features full tutorial demonstrations of the above orgasm positions and many more.
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