Can't Make Your Girlfriend Orgasm?
With Help- Even a Monkey Can!

You can make your girlfriend orgasm with just a little knowledge and the right tools. The first thing that should be understood is that the female orgasm is a complex phenomenon. Before you can make your girlfriend orgasm, you must first identify which stimuli she responds to best. Her ability to respond to stimuli, and the locations on her body where she responds to them can vary greatly. Keep in mind that every woman is different.

Most women are likely to experience intense orgasm from proper stimulation of the clitoral region. However, the brain and her mental state can be as crucial to her ability to reach climax as any physical stimulation. Ideally, she should be turned on before you even touch her. Guys, she's not a swimming pool. You can't just dive right in!

Take things slowly. You're gonna have to talk to her. Ask her about her likes and dislikes. Just because your ex-girlfriend from tenth grade loved it when you nibbled on her ear, that doesn't necessarily mean that your current lover enjoys the same thing. You can save yourself a lot of time and embarrassment by just asking.

Find out if she likes it when you talk dirty to her, or maybe she's more of the romantic type. Discussing her fetishes with her and what turns her on can also be a huge turn on for both of you. Take phone sex for example. This is a perfect example of how you can make her pussy wet without even being in the same room as her. Remember fellas, half of the game is mental.

Gain a solid understanding of what gets your girlfriend's juices flowing, and then start putting things into motion. First, make sure she is in her comfort zone. Do what ever is necessary to make her feel warm and at ease. That could mean throwing on some Barry Manilow tunes (or maybe Barry White) and pouring her a glass of her favorite wine.

You might want to light a scented candle or wear those leopard print boxers that she bought you for Valentine's Day! Then again, maybe all she needs is for you to turn off the Yankee game. Hey, it's all about her, at least for right now.

After you've got her relaxed and feeling really good, she will be more receptive to experimentation. Kiss, touch, and caress her. Gently pass your fingers over and around her nipples. Pay close attention to how she responds. If she loves it when you kiss her neck- by all means keep doing it! What ever she wants.

Encourage her to explore her body and erogenous zones with you. Let her know that it's OK for her to touch herself, and that it's nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about. The two of you can discover your girlfriend's orgasm spots together.

As mentioned earlier, most women can achieve erotic orgasm through proper stimulation of their clitoris. You will probably find that your lover also enjoys having her clitoris teased and tickled. You can do this in a number of ways. You can use your fingers , make your girlfriend orgasm through intercourse, or eat her pussy .

Regardless of which method you choose, always start out gently and slowly. The clitoris is very sensitive, and if you don't take your time and let things warm up, she may find overly aggressive contact with her clit to be uncomfortable. Imagine starting your car's engine on a very cold day in the middle of January. It takes a little while to get things going, but then it's off to the races! Same premise.

Sometimes your girlfriend might want or need you to spice things up with a little help from a third party. Relax; we're not talking about letting her have her way with another lover (unless that's what you want). We are referring to sexual devices that will help ignite her erogenous zones.

These tools were not designed to replace you, but simply to enhance her love making experience as well as yours. After all, the whole point of this article is to help you and your lady reach the ultimate goal- to make your girlfriend orgasm!

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