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Hardcore Sex Toys & BDSM

Have you ever considered sprucing up your relationship with a few hardcore sex toys, but you feel as though sex with chains, a fireplace poker, and an execution style leather face harness and gag muzzle might be a little over the top? Have no fear- OrgasmicEarth.com is here to help you sort things out and put them into perspective.

What is BDSM?

As defined by Wikipedia, BDSM is any of a number of related patterns of human sexual behavior. The major sub groupings are described in the abbreviation "BDSM" itself:

B and D: Bondage and discipline
D and S: Domination and submission
S and M: Sadism and masochism

Let's break this down a little further:

Bondage
Bondage is the practice of restraining or tying up your partner (or being restrained by your partner) for the purpose of giving or receiving sexual pleasure. Bondage, in itself, does not have to involve pain or hardcore sex toys of any kind. However, in the grand scheme of BDSM, engaging in bondage can be a prelude to the usage of whips, paddles, and genital manipulation devices.

Discipline
This is a form of humiliation, physical punishment, or a set of commands that the dominant partner subjects his or her lover to as a means of satisfying a sexual fetish and establishing control. This can be arousing for both the dominant and the submissive partner.

Domination & submission
This is a consensual form of role playing in which one partner takes a position of authority and the other partner subordinates to the dominant partner's demands. This can be practiced by people of any mix of genders or sexual preferences. In many relationships one person always plays the dominant role while the other submits. On the other hand, many couples enjoy switching roles from time to time.

Sadism and masochism (or S&M)
Sadism refers to sexual gratification resulting from the infliction of pain or suffering upon another person; whereas a masochist derives sexual pleasure or gratification from having pain or suffering inflicted upon his or herself.

Are Hardcore Sex Toys for Me?

Many people look at hardcore sex toys with disdain because they are associating them with the negative stigma that has been attached to BDSM. When the average person thinks of BDSM they have dark, scary thoughts. You may have images in your head of leather-clad and gagged victims in cages waiting to be fed to the lions. Or maybe you're picturing a pale, malnourished young woman having her genitals tortured by electrode shock therapy.

For the most part, we can understand if you're feeling intimidated by some bondage gear websites with their all black, gothic dungeon-like appearance. OrgasmicEarth.com is not that type of website.

Although we don't have a problem with the notion of enjoying any sort of extreme lifestyle, fear and shock value are not our schtick.

At this point, you may be thinking that hardcore sex toys are not your cup of tea. Not so fast. BDSM isn't just for freaks, goblins, and vampires. Bondage and fetish gear can be incorporated into any normal, healthy relationship.

Even the most straight-laced couple can benefit from an occasional kinky midnight rendezvous. There's nothing wrong with adding some spice to your oatmeal! (I like cinnamon and, occasionally, a little nutmeg.)

Hardcore sex toys should not be considered perverse or sexually deviant. Using blindfolds, hand and ankle cuffs, and other playful restraints should be viewed as a normal part of human sexuality and foreplay. Exchanging tender teases and spankings with your lover using a paddle or flogger can be quite an invigorating rush for both of you if done correctly!

Now, don't get me wrong. I like dainty little "pretty in pink" vibrators as much as anyone does. But, if you really want to bring the fire and desire back into your bedroom- OrgasmicEarth.com carries an extensive line of hardcore sex toys that will more than tickle your fancy. Our hardcore line is like sugar and spice; nice and naughty without being depraved. We believe in helping our readers soar into unchartered sexual horizons while maintaining a touch of class...

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