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How to Give Your Girlfriend a Finger Orgasm
The wonderful thing about the finger orgasm technique is that you don't need any special skills, tremendous sexual prowess or stamina. All you need to make a girl orgasm is a little practice and a willing partner. As a matter of fact, an average guy with nimble fingers has a better chance at making his girlfriend cum than a man with a 10 inch horse dick who doesn't know how to use it. The reason for this is quite simple. Most of a woman's sexually responsive nerve endings are within the first two or three inches inside her vagina. Technically, that means that you could have a small cock and still drive your girl wild. Or better yet- use your fingers!
PreparationMany years ago, when I tried to give my high school girlfriend a finger orgasm for the first time, I remember plunging into her pussy like a deep sea diver... That didn't go over too well.Ramming my hand in and out of her like a jack hammer wasn't exactly a good way to set the mood. In order for the orgasm-with-finger approach to be effective, one must start with some basic preparation... First, make sure your nails are clean and well trimmed. This is very important because you don't want to cut her or give her any kind of infection. Next, take as long as you need to get your girlfriend in the mood to fool around. For women, sex has much more of an emotional attachment to it. It might take a while before her juices start flowing. You have to progress slowly, and build her confidence as well as her libido. Your job is to make sure that she isn't thinking about anything; especially about having an orgasm. Her mind needs to be freed from any feelings of insecurity or anxiety. Ok, so now it's time to seductively lay your girlfriend on her back, with you on top. Most girls don't like immediate insertion, so start with some kissing and less aggressive foreplay. When she's ready, slowly insert your middle finger into her vagina with your palm facing up. Start slowly, in and out, softly stroking her inner walls. As her pussy begins to get wet and loosen up, you can start to work in a second or third finger. (You should never need to insert more than three fingers.) To keep things exciting, you can simultaneously kiss her neck, shoulders and breasts, or any spot on her body that really turns her on. You should also be using your non busy hand to stimulate the other parts of her body. In order to make a girl orgasm with finger stimulation, you must also massage her clitoris. This organ is located above the opening of her vagina. You can find her clit between her vaginal lips, where the folds of flesh come to a point in the upper part of her pubic area. It is a very small, sensitive bump, about the size of a pea.
The key to perfecting the finger orgasm technique is knowing how to stimulate your girlfriend's clitoris and her G spot simultaneously. I find that the best way to do this is by keeping the palm of your hand faced up towards the ceiling. Use your middle and ring fingers to stroke her G spot. At the same time, gently massage your girl's clitoris with your thumb, using varying circular motions. The idea is to lightly clasp or pinch her pussy between your three fingers. Your longer fingers should stay inside her vagina, while your thumb remains outside, on her clit. Now, all you have to do is bring your fingers together, in a rubbing/stroking motion. (Almost as if you are sprinkling a pinch of salt on your girlfriend's tasty pussy!) Also remember that the finger orgasm is not an exact science. You can experiment with increasing the pace and intensity as your girl gets more and more turned on. Continue to kiss, lick, and suck her. Don't be afraid to stop, go back to caressing her, and then start again. Talk to her. Ask her what feels good. What ever your honey says- keep giving her more of it! Follow these techniques and eventually it will happen. Just take your time, keep the communication open, and you could be minutes away from giving your girlfriend one hell of a finger orgasm!
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