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What is an Extended Orgasm and How Can I Have One?
The aim of extended orgasm is to prolong the pleasurable sensations that occur near the end of the sexual response cycle, just before orgasm. This practice is a variation of tantric sex, in which value is attributed to living in the moment as opposed to focusing solely on the goal of climactic orgasm (which reduces our ability to experience ecstasy during other stages of the sexual experience). The extended orgasm technique can be practiced during solo masturbation or with a partner. However, the real beauty of this technique occurs when you can enjoy a richer, fuller and more intense connection with you partner by remaining for a long time in the pre-orgasmic sate. For this reason, we will focus on utilizing this method with a companion. Typically, you will have a passive partner and a dominant one. You and your lover can choose roles depending on what mood the two of you are in. Simply for the sake of making this article read uniformly, the following advice was written assuming that you are going play the dominant role: (Time to step up!) Start by giving your lover slow, gentle stimulation, gradually bringing her (or him) near the edge of orgasm, but then reduce the level of stimulation to just below that needed to trigger the orgasm. A good way to control the level of stimulation is by using a sex toy that has a vibrating mechanism with variable speed control. By carefully varying the intensity of stimulation, you can keep your partner in a frenzied state before allowing her to rest and catch her breath. Continue to repeat this technique until your lover becomes overwhelmed with the urge to climax. At this point, let her enjoy the most explosive orgasm of her life! Your success is contingent on your ability to help your lover get off. You must know her well enough to be able to gauge when you should ease up and when to press forward. Sorry, there isn't any magic formula for that. In order to reap the full benefit of the extended orgasm technique, you should already be familiar with your partner's sexual quirks and idiosyncrasies.
What is a Sybian Orgasm?
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