It all started last year- before my best friend, Vicki got married. She asked me to be her Maid of Honor and, well, naturally- I was honored!
However, with this honor came a lot of responsibility. I spent about six months helping Vicki plan just about every minute detail of her wedding from picking out her gown to creating a guest list for her bridal shower. So, when she mentioned having a bachelorette party- to be honest with you, I felt more overwhelmed than excited. But, Vicki is my best friend so I couldn't let her down.
That's when I came across this totally cool
bachelorette party guide
just in the knick of time!
By the way... see that incredibly hot hunk of a man in the picture above? He calls himself "Big John Stud". (Actually, that's just a model. The real "stud" wasn't available for a photo shoot.) Sorry girls- he doesn't come with the bachelorette party guide. Big John costs a little extra!
OK, so I have a little confession to make. When I drink wine, sometimes I get a little crazy. Yeah, the stud and I were all over each other at Vicki's party. The morning after the party my girlfriends teased me about how I gave Big John the lap dance of his life. I remember that part. What I don't remember is yodeling out stuff like "Ride 'em cowboy... spank that ass... Yee-hah!" It's all kind of a blur...
Anyway, let's not get side-tracked... Where was I?
Oh, like I was saying... my favorite bachelorette party guide is a perfect party planning aid. It's filled with lots of fun and sexy bachelorette party ideas and advice. Here are a couple of tips to get you started:
Consider your audience
Who will you be inviting to the party? If you are not related to the bride, hopefully you are at least acquainted with her family and her other friends. If the bride's mother or her little sister are attending, or if her childhood friend from 1st grade is now a nun- you're going to have to plan accordingly.
How about the bride? Is she ultra conservative, or does she like to have a good time? As long as she's not too prissy, she will surely appreciate one last hurrah before taking the plunge. If she's still got any of that party girl spirit in her system- now's the time for her to get her rocks off while she still can.
After all, a future of making bologna sandwiches for the kids while her husband snores on the couch will be less than thrilling to say the least!
Wear something sexy
An ounce of bachelorette party planning is worth a pound of cure!
You're probably asking- What does that mean? It means that you never know what may happen at this event. You're not going to a card party to play Gin Rummy with Grandma. This is a bachelorette party! Chances are you will be surrounded by gorgeous men. Some real hunks.
If you are anything like me, after a few drinks, your top or a pair of pants may mysteriously come off! You don't want to be caught wearing a pair of rib-high bloomers- looking like Aunt Sally, do you?
(Now, before you go running off and condemning me to Hell... relax. I'm not advocating having sex with an anonymous exotic dancer. I'm only saying that you should enjoy yourself, ladies. Life is short and you only live once. Why not have a good time enticing the dancers instead of the other way around? Ultimately though, you should set your own boundaries to where you feel comfortable.)
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Using Your Bachelorette Party Guide
The online bachelorette party guide gives some excellent ideas on how to go about finding and paying your exotic dancers. You can also make things entertaining by developing a theme. If the bride-to-be loves men in uniform- arrange for a dancer to arrive dressed as the city's finest police officer. Maybe have a different dancer for each uniform type. (A fireman, soldier, sailor, etc...)
However, you're going to need more than just a couple of strippers to keep things fun. Believe it or not, the thrill of partying with a bunch of gorgeous, half-naked guys (or girls for that matter) can start to wear off if you don't have anything else lined up for the night.
Consider using some of the extra money that you raise for your party in order to hold a raffle. The grand prize winner can be the proud recipient of an erotic
sex toy
. As long as it's within your budget, it doesn't matter what the toy is. It could be a dildo, vibrator, nipple pump, even a strap-on!
Or, you might want to hold a series of contests and give away multiple sex toys and door prizes to the winners.
How's about a little limbo, girls?
For that matter, considering the atmosphere, everyone's guard should be down and their inhibitions low. So why not liven up the party by holding an adult toy auction?
Use the bachelorette party guide to shop for party invitations and all of the bachelorette party supplies you will ever need. You can get novelty cups, plates and napkins, gag gifts and all kinds of goody bag stuffers. You'll also find racy sex games, Marti Gras beads, adult novelty balloons and streamers, and some fun novelty wedding veils.
They even have a drink mixing guide so that you can make some uniquely sexy bachelorette party cocktails. My favorite drink is something called the "Blow Job"!
Check Out the Bachelorette Party Guide
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